Saturday, January 14, 2017

Marriage is why we are here!



I love being a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.  
The counsel that I receive, especially regarding marriage and family relationships, 
brings me a lot of peace!  
Speaking on the family, President Spencer W. Kimball's words speak to my heart.  
He gave this quote in the October conference in 1980.  
His prophetic words are ringing forth today as the family is being attacked. 
He says, 

"The time will come when only those who believe deeply and actively in the family will be able to preserve their families in the midst of the gathering evil around us."

I take heart when I hear this because I BELIEVE DEEPLY in the family and I am counting on that belief to preserve my family.  Now I know that my desires can't stop my children or my spouse's choices, but I am confident that the Lord knows my heart and wishes to bless me however he can.  That can be by giving me peace and helping me endure as my family and I go through trials! 

Elder Oaks' address on "Divorce" in the April 2007 conference taught me things that I have been pondering on in my own life.  One of my dear childhood friends who lives near my family and whose children have become good friends of my own children, recently got divorced.  It happened last semester while I was registered for 3 family classes (Family Relations, The Family, and The Eternal Family).  These classes study in depth, "The Proclamation: A Proclamation to the World".  The reasons for the divorce aren't important for me to about in this blog, but I was and continue to be so confused about their divorce and the effects it will have on the couple and their children. 

Having said that, Elder Oaks says,

 ". . .a good marriage does not require a perfect man or a perfect woman.  It only requires a man and a woman committed to strive together toward perfection."  

That is what I want to focus on in my own marriage.  
I am not perfect and my husband isn't perfect, but together we can be!  
That gives me hope! 
 That gives me something to work toward!  
That is why we are here on the earth, 
to strive to be like God so that we can return to Him again!

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